Communicating Pronouns is for Everyone!
I was inspired to put this together after a wonderfully honest conversation this morning. A cis straight friend admitted to being unsure about when it’s appropriate for her to name her pronouns. A gender nonconforming friend talked about how they use all pronouns, sharing further that he actually likes the use of her name instead of pronouns. It was an enlightening and affirming conversation all around, and I wanted to share some of my takeaways and wishes. This is likely not an extensive breakdown, but I hope it’s a helpful start for anyone seeking insight on pronouns.
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Communicating pronouns helps you.
For trans, non-binary, and gender noncomforming folx: We're affirming our gender identity and communicating our needs. It's an empowering form of self-care.
For cis folx: Regular identification of your pronouns cements this practice and grows your awareness as an ally.
Communicating pronouns helps others.
It creates safer spaces for those of us who may feel vulnerable or insecure about our gender identity and expression.
It amplifies awareness and knowledge of the importance of pronouns.
It normalizes the practice of communicating pronouns.
Here are 3 simple ways that ANYONE can communicate pronouns in daily life:
Add your pronouns everywhere your name can be seen.
Social media bios
Video call name
Email signatures (personal and work!)
Name tags
Include your pronouns when introducing yourself.
Do this any time you state your name and/or meet someone new. In group settings, ask that others name their pronouns too.
When others don't name their pronouns, ask!
It can be as simple as, "What are your pronouns?" PS: Typically, pronouns are not "preferred", they simply are. Please don't use the phrase "preferred pronouns".
