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On the right, Bree is a fat, White person with short, messy lavender hair, wearing black headphones and an open mouthed smile. https://breeishelpfulaf.com/blog/might-as-well-magic-bathing monthly 0.5 2022-12-07 https://breeishelpfulaf.com/blog/how-i-grieve-death monthly 0.5 2023-01-31 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/b489bc61-56e6-4a3d-9dcc-fa4998fe8762/Screen+Shot+2022-01-19+at+6.10.57+PM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Gand, November 2, 2020. This is the last photo ever taken of him. The irony is not lost on me that the purpose of this picture was to send well wishes to some pals for their virtual baby shower. Image description: Gand, a grey Maine Coon cat, lying on a grey plush mat. There’s a yellow piece of paper in the shape of a big heart leaning against him. Handwritten, the paper says, “Congrats! Wishing you lotsa love and (fingers crossed) rest! XOXO, Sleaze + Gand”. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/990cf0ff-5f96-4837-9967-51708d31c410/Screen+Shot+2022-01-19+at+6.11.36+PM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Gand, November 11, 2012. This was just a few months after he zoomied into my life. Image description: Gand lying on grey carpet with his head perched straight up, looking directly into the camera with yellow-green eyes. There’s a mouse toy at his left paw. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/80e14992-91be-4ab5-9524-685425e026e8/Screen+Shot+2022-01-19+at+6.12.35+PM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Gand’s urn, currently living on my dusty ass bookshelf, adorned with his favorite bow tie. Image description: A purple brass urn with green iridescence. There are gold paw prints horizontally across the middle and it reads “Gand” just beneath. A purple bow tie rests around the top of the urn. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/00a8d3f7-6cac-4781-bacc-28210fb36b09/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.42.30+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out This is what my Gand altar space looked like on the day he died. It’s evolved a few times since then to include other offerings, a frame, and elemental properties. Image description: A photo of Gand in a green bow tie sits on my altar. There’s a red rose and grey hamburger print collar in front of the photo, then a tea light candle burning in front of that, and an Oracle card after that. The card reads, “Isolt. Undying Love. The love you have shared is eternal, regardless of the situation.” There are cat treats at each corner of the card, as well as surrounding the candle, collar, and rose. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/0ea20410-847f-4407-a5d5-6edab33490e6/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.43.26+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out I didn’t get any pics of the flowers I bought myself, but here’s one of the orchids my pal sent me. Image description: A fuchsia orchid sitting at the corner of my altar. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/07eb8b0d-ccaf-42f2-bceb-9fd4e8b76820/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.44.20+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out This is the painting I did for Gand’s celebration. It actually took me a couple months to finish it. But the message of gentle strength from this tarot card really resonated with me in my early grief. Image description: A watercolor painting in a glittery gold frame. Next to it is the Strength card from tarot, which depicts a person in a white long sleeve dress and a crown of flowers. There’s an infinity symbol over their head, and their hands are gently placed on a lion’s face and mouth. The orange lion looks happy, with their tongue sticking out. The watercolor painting is a personalized rendition of the Strength card, except the human looks like me with blue hair, fat, tattoos, and black clothes. The lion is grey with a white mane, like Gand. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/7e6f7bdb-8090-46db-8efb-6693da82986b/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.45.34+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Just a lil peek at my Gand folder. 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He’s sleeping on a zebra print sheet with both paws covering his face. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/8da0385e-83f2-4e5b-bdf3-996c7eb14dae/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.47.23+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Gand’s belly was a very special place just for him and me. April 5, 2015. Image description: Gand lying on his back on a light wooden floor with his white fluffy belly showing. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/579ff1a5-83b4-426c-9474-f071ef70dcb7/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.48.26+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Gand loved a good cuddle box, especially if it was full of crinkly paper and warm blankets. November 20, 2016. Image description: Gand sitting in a box, looking straight into the camera. His eyes look a gentle light green here and he’s wearing a purple collar. There’s a green and brown blanket under him, and crinkled brown paper around him. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/e12e9954-7a2a-46ac-9695-328db0c381c7/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.49.33+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Forever the cutest sleepin’ fur beeb. April 27, 2017. Image description: A full body shot of Gand asleep, lying on his side atop various sheets and blankets of black, purple, white/black zebra print, and purple/black zebra print. He’s wearing a green bow tie. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/c8a45edf-bfc0-4441-bef1-40da0a571138/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.50.17+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out I remember being super sick this day, but Gand took very good care of me! May 18, 2018. Image description: A selfie of me and Gand. Although the shot is just of our faces, it’s kind of apparent that he’s sitting in my lap. There’s a painting of a fat woman behind me on the wall, as well as purple string lights and a sticker that says “NO”. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/88ea558c-5633-4016-8f4e-8b713d1ef5ea/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.50.56+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out Just a couple of fluffy goofs. October 27, 2019. Image description: Gand standing next to me on a couch. He looks very serious while I’m laughing as I place my long green hair over his head like it’s his hair. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ff35f4150339566e9bde78a/da5b3af1-8bd4-46b3-88aa-e3f3bb968109/Screen+Shot+2022-01-20+at+11.51.29+AM.png Bree's Blog - How I Grieve Death - Make it stand out A glorious, stoic beeb, even til the end. September 30, 2020. Image description: A full body shot of Gand lying in bed, his head perched and looking right into the camera. He’s on top of a black comforter, which is on top of red sheets. 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